Do you know what makes letting go of a crush so hard? The fear that the moment you let go, they’ll catch on.
The difference between guys and girls. When a guy likes a girl, most of the time he does something about it. When a girl likes a guy, most of the time she keeps to herself and never tells him. Like duh.
IMPORTANT: This post is referring to the theory that when something is brought to your attention, you notice it more than something else - not the theory about intelligent life forms. Whatever okay.
Have you ever noticed that you have no idea a person has a crush on you until it’s brought yo your attention? Of course, you then begin to see little “signs” even if those things mean nothing. This is the observer theory. I’ve always noticed this, but never really had a name for it currently. So hold on.