If you’re going to lie, lie better. Don’t waste your time lying if you’re going to get caught. But, on the other hand, if you are good at it, keep up the good work. Congrats.
Re-reading an old blog I came across a old post about where someone asked me about my view of love. Maybe when I was young I believed that true love might have been real, but its not.
There’s no chance that two people are perfectly meant for each other. Even by God, there is no way. People are to clumsy. They would marry the wrong person all the time and maybe they are almost perfectly but what happens to who was meant to be? What happens to her?
I really believe that anyone can be happy with anyone else. It just takes effort. You can love anyone, it is the mutuality that makes it love, or else its just a lie because one person can just mean it and the other not so much.
“Grades don’t measure really how smart you are. It’s how much time you spend I think.”
Its the same somewhat with a relationship. A good relationship isn’t decided by how compatible two people are, its how much you put at it. The time your willing to spend for each other, that’s how good of a relationship it is. Love is something you both have to be willing to put at.
No true love. Its just another one of those things that seems nice to think about but its not real. NONE of it.
True love is Dedication, Effort, Communication, and Time. So don’t lie to yourself or the other person if your just in it for a good time, a new experience, or a better reputation.
