Walking away & giving up are a two different things, do you agree?
I’ve always been the one who’s stuck in the middle. Someone who likes to keep the peace amongst people and never saying anything. But sometimes that part of my personality really backfires on me... because when two of my friends fight, I have a tendency of never saying anything, just silently backing away.
But now I realize, that my silence is taken advantage of. People seem to have created this image that I give up on the fight instead of walk away. Maybe I’m the one to blame. I never let people see my diversity of character and now I’m tagged as a pushover... tags annoy me too, but that later.
Moral of the story? When you walk away from something, you know how much it’s going to harm you if you get involved. You understand that it’s best not to increase the drama in your life right now, especially if it’s not you who caused the situation in the first place.
But when you give up, there is always a feeling of regret. You can’t handle the situation, so you raise the flag out of frustration and then you’re back to square one. To all those people who assume things without even bothering to get to know the situation at hand - Fuck you all. Because your false comments mean as much to me as a fish means to a bull.
