My grandpa always says.. when it comes to girls, you must collect and collect, and then you select.
“Two rules about relationships:
1) You CAN NOT force someone to love you back.
2) You DO NOT go into a relationship expecting to change him/her.
It’s really not that complicated, but people like to over complicate things to fit their agenda.”
- Alex Quijano
I’ve been meaning to write about my experience in being in a relationship, and I’m dedicating this post to my wonderful girlfriend. I’ve been with Mellyana for over a year and going on two months, and that’s something. After all the arguments and good times, we’re still in intact. She has done so many things for me and has given me advice when the world didn’t care much for me. She has seen my different sides and to be honest, I think she thinks that there’s more to me than what meets the eye. She has been there when I cried, she’s the only one that I’m open with. I may have friends and ‘best’ friends but no one can compare to the person you love and who you are with.
Sometimes friends fail to be there, and I know this from experience but a very few are keepers. I love how she comforts me when I’m down, she re-assures me that everything’s going to be okay. Within these walls that I grew up to dislike, she makes it all go away when she calls or even text me. I never had someone tell me that I’m important and ‘charming’ as she puts it, and no one has ever seen me in that light. To be honest, in the beginning I was a bit wary about the whole situation since I met girls that were in the verge of making my life meaningless.
She was the first one to actually talk to me, even though she was extremely nervous and ready to be rejected by me. I was around 15 when I first met Mellyana and we were off and on in the beginning of dating. We didn’t date in the beginning, it was more on the lines of friends at the time. I imagine that’s how all the relationships start out but some people go for the kill early than most.
You must learn that sometimes it isn't love. It's just a sudden feeling. And you just over-reacted.
Ever since August of 2009, we’ve been together and counting. I have learned how to deal with my emotions and she slipped within the cracks of my barrier and now I kiss her goodnight. Throughout my life, I have been rejected until she came and I grew to learn that the world I used to know no longer exists. She says that I bright up her day, and that puts a smile on my face. I have met her hyper-active friends, and its cute how she says that she admires me on how I can talk to anyone. Believe me, it took me awhile to be there person that I am now. I do have a love life thats invisible to the naked eyes of many, because I only talk about her to certain people such as Haziq & Asri. If everything goes well, she and I might be living together under one roof.
Life is definitely showing its good side and I’m still patiently waiting for God to accept my wishes. Out of millions of people, I chose you Mellyana. You’re the one that brightens up my evenings, you’re the one that makes me feel happy inside, you’re the one I can come to when there’s a problem, I know for sure that life gave me the most intelligent, gorgeous, hardworking, loving girlfriend ever. I’m glad and very happy to know that you and I can head into one future that we can build together.
My Top 10 all-time favourite songs.
(2008-2010)
Taken from my Itunes.
"Heart, is in the center of our chest, but it beats at the left side. Thats the reason why the heart isn't always right."
