Call me Mr. Tumblr, I can make yo' grades drop!
I’ve just been thinking a lot about tragedy lately, as well as altruism. There’s been some emotional pain in my life as of late. I’m not going to hide from the fact that someone hurt me more than I can explain. I’m glad that I no longer have them in my life, but it was still one of the hardest lines I have ever walked. The only solace I claim is that every new day makes it easier to bear. Due to this struggle and my own heartache, I honestly think that it is time that I focus MORE on other people instead of myself. Isn’t that the best way to mourn to turn attention to the needs of others, instead of dwelling on the past?
“When I said losing you has made me a better person… I wasn’t lying”
I just don’t want to see other people hurt. I don’t want the people in Chile and Haiti and Darfur and Rwanda and the needy in America and those affected by the landslide in Uganda to hurt. I don’t want anyone to lose someone they love, or have to bear the weight of sickness and other forms of loss. I don’t want to see other people with needs that no one feels it necessary to meet. I do for others, but I still feel soo incredibly self absorbed. Maybe it is just the society that we live in, that makes me feel selfish because I have a tendency to focus on things and furthering my studies. Or maybe It is because I really am a selfish person.
“I can see widows and orphans through my tears,
I know my call despite my faults and despite my growing fears.”
- M&S
The only way to begin helping others is to just dive in and become involved. I really am trying to decide what sort of work to focus on. I need ideas for real. It’s been a while since I had time to do for other people, but that needs to change.
You know what they say… If one person steps forward to make a change… well, the world is filled with just one person.
Hmm...
Seductive Megan Fox, ermm.
Note to someone out there. Sometimes, the best way to stay close to someone you love is by being just a friend. Nothing more, nothing less. "Waiting for the right one" is an excuse for those who aren't brave enough to try. No matter how smart you are, you can never outsmart what your heart tells you. Let me tell you something... Trust, promise, relationship, and heart. When they break, they don't make noise; but they hurt a lot. But never let anyone fall for you when you know there's someone else you have in your heart and mind.
&& Single, doesn't mean that you know nothing about love. Fact, being solo is wiser than being in a wrong relationship.
Ever heard of listening to music? Try to listen to love songs and I'm sure it will help you to feel better. Here, let me help you. Because I've been listening to them for the past 2 days and they'd give me some inspirations.
- Adam Lambert - Whataya Want From Me, If I Had You
- Taylor Swift - Crazier, You Belong With Me, Love Story, Breathe
- MUSE - Resistance, Undisclosed Desires
- Linkin Park - The Little Things You Give Away, Valentine's Day, Numb
- M2M - Pretty Boy, Dear Diary
- David Archuleta - A Little Too Not Over You, Crush
- OneRepublic - Secrets, Say (All I Need)
- Leona Lewis - Lost Then Found (Feat. OneRepublic), I Got U
- Cheryl Cole - Parachute, Fight For This Love
- Boys Like Girls - Thunder (Radio Edit), Two Is Better Than One (Feat. Taylor Swift)
Yeah, that's it. These songs really works. I mean, they have the most powerful lyric yet. And I'm pretty sure you will fall in love with these songs too. Somewhere, someone knows the words to the songs you sing.
And please don't listen to Justin Bieber songs. It's immature and his lyrics are not about love, it's about how to woo a girl. Guys who listens to his song, you know what I mean.
:)
OK I'M GOING TO GO MAKE PEOPLE MAD ON HABBO.